Crystal Blanton, LCSW

New Office Space

I am very excited to announce that I have a new office space! It is still located in Pleasant Hill, and relatively close to the previous office.

This office will allow more flexibility in scheduling, services and the use of space. I am very excited to make this transition in my practice and to explore the ways that this new space will service clients and the community.

New space is located at 2800 Pleasant Hill Road, Suite 280, Pleasant Hill, CA 94523.

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New Instagram and Holiday Tips

I have a new Instagram site to share tips, thoughts, insights and educational resources with those who are interested in following. Social media has become such a normal part of daily engagement for people, and often times social media holds so much that becomes overwhelming, frustrating, and problematic. So one of the desires with this page is to have a place where people can have moments of reflection, inspiration, liberating or provoking thoughts in a sea of negative social media messages.

The instagram tag is @ExploringWellnessAndLiberation

As a part of introducing this new page I started working on some holiday tips to share since it is that time of year. So many things can have impact on us during the holidays. Some of those things will bring moments of joy and some contribute to experiences of challenge and sadness.

So I will share those tips here for those who have not seen them or have no desire to go to instagram.

May we all have a moment of peace and internal balance this holiday.

Identifying Joy for Wellness

Identifying and finding joy sounds like such a strange concept when one continues to struggle with the impact of pressure from society, oppression or the symptoms of depression. Joy itself is one of those concepts that seems unattainable, vague and even nonexistent.

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Yet working towards homeostasis pushes us to find ways to balance out the experiences we endure that tend to hold us in spaces of despair, sadness, worry, anxiety or confusion. So what is joy and how to we find it when it is happening?

According to the basic definition of the Merriam-Webster dictionary, joy is “the emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune or by the prospect of possessing what one desires; the expression or exhibition of such emotion; a state of happiness or felicity; a source or cause of delight”.

For many people joy feels unreal as experiences of despair seems to be the norm within so many of our communities, on the news and in the world. The struggle to connect with experiences that enhance our threads of happiness or purpose can add to the already overwhelming feeling of disconnect; thus making the path to identifying joy happening around us feel complicated.

The attempt to identify joy does not negate the experience of complication yet mindfulness around it can add to one’s tool box in useful ways. Once we see opportunities for joy we can cultivate those in small ways to bring an increased sense of balance.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy reinforces a concept of infinite possibilities, the understanding that many things are possible at the present moment and future. It is the understanding that a myriad of things can be true at any given time, that one aspect of reality doesn’t exist in isolation. Stretching to see outside of our immediate experiences to identify additional opportunities of connection supports the ability to be present in the moment. A person can be exhausted, depressed, overwhelmed and also have moments of joy and connection.

So how do we connect to moments of joy while also experiencing overwhelm or exhaustion? This is often the position people are negotiating when looking to shift the way that they are feelings or experiencing life, and it can be important to note that there can be a type of pressure associated with this as well. Too often there are expectations in our families, society or even within one’s self around just “feeling better” when one is struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety or even despair.

Negotiating all of these elements are not a exact science and there is no right way to approach a need for rebalancing, but there are some small exercises that can support next steps.

Here are some prompts to explore in moving into the present moment of identifying joy and creating more balance towards homeostasis:

What things make you smile?
What thing are going right in this moment? What successes are happening for you at this moment?
Take a moment to connect with things that you are grateful for.
What things make you feel present? Makes you want to breathe in the moment?
What activities bring you more into your body?
When is the last time you smelled the flowers, felt the breeze on your face, heard the birds chirping?
What music or songs bring you good thoughts, excitement, memories or comfort?
What cultural, spiritual, or family traditions bring you feelings of comfort, excitement, or happiness?
How are you engaging in mindfulness practices and what activities can you increase to be more present and connected to things around you?
When is the last time you have given yourself permission to embrace the things that bring you joy?
How can you lean into your passions and identify with your current dreams.

As we all move into a space of reinforcing balance and joy, increasing opportunities to engage in the present moment can be essential. While moments of joy, happiness or presence doesn’t not erase our challenges or despair, it can give a chance to reset the balance button. And sometimes we need to reset that re-balance button multiple times throughout the day.

Be well.

Courage Award with Constellation Behavioral Health

45241101_10218104147260067_7445904112077504512_n It was my honor to receive the Courage Tribute Award with Constellation Behavioral Health on November 2, 2018 during their Miracle Awards Celebration. It was a well done event with a packed room of professionals from the substance abuse and mental health fields. I enjoyed sitting next to friends and previous co-workers, and also along side my husband who attended with me.

According to the website, the Courage Tribute award “Honors a professional who has empowered the addiction recovery and mental health communities through advocacy, leadership and courage.” I was nominated by Georgette Cobbs, LMFT and Dr. Abby Medcalf, much to my surprise.

I have been very appreciative of the moments this year where I have received a reward acknowledging the work that I am so passionate about. I am linking below a video of my speech and the transcription.

I am very grateful for the ongoing encouragement, support, mentorship and acknowledgment from my co-workers, family and friends.

Good morning everyone. I have so much gratitude for the ability to be here with everyone; sharing in the collective work and goal of supporting people to thrive through the challenges of mental health disorders and addiction. It is an honor to be recognized in this work among the professionals and change agents in this room.

I want to take the opportunity to start this morning with a Zulu greeting that is used in different parts of Africa. People greet one another by saying “Sawubona” which means “I see you”. The traditional response to this is a word (“Ngikhona”), which means “I am here”.

It is said that it is inherent in the Zulu greeting and response that there is a sense that until you saw me, I didn’t exist. By recognizing one another we are calling a sense of community and purpose into existence. So this morning I start with saying Sawubona to all the people here, doing the work of hope. I see you.

As I reflect on the importance of our collective work I think about the many opportunities we have to shift micro and macro experiences around the importance of mental health support. Whether working with one child, one family, one community or in the macro work of society; the ability to engage with individuals fighting to thrive is one of the most powerful things we can do in a JUST society.

My professional work as a mental health provider, advocate, and activist was paved by many of the lessons I learned from my mother at an early age.

My mother was a woman of service. She taught me to be present for the needs of others by showing me how to be present with those who needed it the most. She took care of children, fed people, and shared shelter with others when they needed it. I will never forget her memorial, sitting in a packed room, and listening to every person speak about living with my mom. My husband leaned over to me and asked if everyone had lived with her… and I told him, “pretty much”.

She taught me that service was an act of love, and that love was active.

Whether she was running her daycare, feeding the neighbors, becoming a foster mother or adopting everyone into her family…… her kind of love was the kind that came with service to others. Love as an action and not just a feeling. My mother taught me to see the inherent dignity and worth in every person. No wonder I grew up to be a social worker.

I was 23 years old when I started working in Drug Treatment services at New Bridge Foundation, and I truly I grew grew up in my career there. I spent 16 years at New Bridge learning, growing and being able to witness the path to healing with so many young people. Today I work for Lincoln Families as a Program Manager of two programs that oversee mental health services for young people and families in various levels of the system.

It is truly a blessing to have the chance to do this work. I have had the opportunity to work with some of the most amazing children and young people on their journey to push beyond survival. To be witness to the humanity of those who are too often without a voice and silenced in their struggle. Young people assumed to be high risk, behavior challenges, unmanageable, or out of control…. And in reality they are just scared, traumatized, disempowered, and searching for a way to be seen.

In my most recent trip to Sacramento, standing in front of the state legislature along side Assemblyman Tony Thurmond, I gave my second testimony in support of Assembly bill 456. And I thought then as I do now…. That this work need us to show up, be present and be willing to move beyond our own comfort to support a picture of equity and opportunity for wellness for others.

This reflection of the work reminds me that there is not a more critical time than right now to engage hope and love in action in the world. We are living in a time when civil liberties are being stripped from marginalized populations, the prison industrial complex is thriving, access to healthcare is being ripped apart, trans and non-binary identified individuals are targeted, immigrants are dehumanized, families are being forcefully separated, police violence is rampant, national suicide rates are up, school shootings have become normalized and the reality of poverty continues to reach far and wide. California is still above national average for child poverty and we understand the impact that this can have on child and family functioning. And systematic disenfranchisement continues to sweep through the very fabric of our society and racism continues to stare us in the face.

There is not a more critical time than right now to continue to engage in advocacy to promote the wellness of children and families, to increase access to mental health and substance treatment, to support best practices and implementation of culturally significant supports.

There isn’t a more important time than now.

I would like to end with one of my favorite quotes from a leader in the liberation movement: Afeni Shakur.

“I guarantee that the seed you plant in love, no matter how small, will grow into a mighty tree of refuge. We all want a future for ourselves and we must now care enough to create, nurture and secure a future for our children.”

I thank you for inviting me here today and for continuing to honor and embrace the work of hope for our young people. I am truly grateful to share space with you all here today, and within the work. A special thanks to my long time coworkers and friends Georgette and Abby for this nomination. And to my husband Jonathan for everything.

And with love in action, I say Sawubona to everyone here today working to make a difference. I see you….”

Mindfulness in Motion

Who are you in your body? Who do you see when you look at yourself beyond the reflection in the mirror?

One of the most powerful things we can do for ourselves is give ourselves the opportunity to look beyond the reflection in the mirror and look into the amazing, powerful and capable person within.

Sometimes it is scary to look inside of ourselves for fear of what we might find, or for concern that we have to face some of the things we would rather avoid. This is understandable, and each of us individually have to make decisions about what we are able to do at any given time. No one else can dictate when it is appropriate for us to take the next step in our own healing or development.

It is also important to acknowledge that separating ourselves from ourselves can be a tool that ultimately takes an individual away from being able to move forward. Sometimes walking through is the option to get the answers we need at the time. Exploring this element of your work with a therapist or other people in your support network can be an amazing step in this part of your own journey.

We hear about the use of mindfulness as a tool of healing, self care and maintenance. It has almost become a buzz word within the overculture of our society to describe a variety of activities associated with meditation, or even yoga. But the art of mindfulness is so much more than a few breathing exercises and meditations. Mindfulness can be the key to a new approach of developing relationship with the self.

An important element of rooting yourself back into your body is the ability to be present, which makes mindfulness an important aspect of many people’s healing path. Any opportunity to come out of our heads, back into our bodies and into the present moment can make us more aware of the things happening right in front of us. Too often we are stuck in the past, or projecting into the future, when we haven’t the ability to be right here, right now.

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy models incorporates mindfulness as a fundamental element of treatment. The understanding that we cannot regulate our own bodies and needs if we are not observant of our present is essential. On Psychology Today’s website, mindfulness is defined as “A state of active, open attention on the present. When you’re mindful, you carefully observe your thoughts and feelings without judging them good or bad. Instead of letting your life pass you by, mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to your current experience, rather than dwelling on the past or anticipating the future”.

Focusing on your environment, observing the moment, standing in a non-judgmental space, paying attention to our senses and slowing down our mind are some of the key elements of being in a mindful state. In the book Depressed & Anxious: The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Workbook for Overcoming Depression and Anxiety, Thomas Marra Ph. D presents the mnemonic for mindfulness as “ONE MIND”.

“One thing

Now

Environment. What is happening out there?

Moment. Immediate

Increase Senses Touch, taste, vision hearing.

Nonjudgmental. Not good or bad, right or wrong.

Describe: Words. Descriptive not prescriptive or proscriptive.”

In really considering who we are, inside of our skin, and into our amazing selves, how can you connect to these prompts about yourself? How can you be nonjudgemental about yourself? How can you describe who you are, right now. Who are you in your environment, who are you in this very moment?

Connecting to those very elements of your brilliant self can support people in the journey of learning, and re-learning who we are today. As Mindful practices are active processes, it involves getting involved in yourself and in your immediate environment. It takes being present with yourself.

Ideas for mindfulness activities to support relationship with ourselves:

- Breathing exercises that are 2-3 minutes to slow your breathing, focus on your senses (what do you hear, smell, feel), pay attention to your thoughts and patterns of thought.
- From where ever you are, take a moment to identify what is in your environment. How many trees do you see? What colors are present? What sounds do you hear? How many people are walking around? What types of cars are present?
- Spend some time gardening. How does the soil feel in your hands? Take a moment to connect with the earth. The earth element can be grounding and support us with getting in touch with the moment we are in.
- Listen to a favorite album or genre of music. Close your eyes and pay attention to what you hear. Spend time thinking about all the sounds and how they interplay with one another. Pay attention to the emotions that arise when you are listening to the music, think about how your body is responding to the movement of the sound.

The ability to increase our awareness of the here and now gives us more opportunity to connect with what is happening on the inside, and what goes beyond a simple reflection.